Objective: Adjusting our expectations and attitudes during times that call out for our waiting.
Introduction (2 mins)
- The animator greets students and reminds them about the theme of Sowing Hope and the importance of committing ourselves daily to believe and act in favour of our desired results.
- The animator leads students to quiet down, starting with the sign of the cross and a simple thanksgiving prayer.
Sharing (5 mins)
- The animator introduces the February theme of Being Patient in the context of the plant that needs time to grow.
- The animator suggests that technology has revolutionised and improved the world in many ways (showing pictures), but it doesn’t help us with the ability to wait and be patient.
- The animator asks students whether they agree and to explain their answers.
Video (4 mins)
- The animator proposes that waiting is even more challenging for those who may have grown accustomed to a life of instant gratification/satisfaction. It is better to learn how to wait patiently, even if that requires delaying gratification.
- The animator shows clip: Marshmallow test (3:30 mins)
Reflection (5 mins)
- The animator states that according to Jesus, to ‘live/grow fast is to die young’ and reminds students that the seed that grew the quickest in the Parable of the Sower was the one that died the fastest since it fell into shallow soil on rocky ground.
- The animator explains that the plant that springs up and withers quickly does so due to lack of roots and that Jesus himself likens it with those who “hear the Word (of God) and at once receive it with joy. But since they have no root, they last only a short time. When trouble and persecution come because of the word, they quickly fall away” (Mk 4:16-18).
- The animator concludes that to grow and mature as persons is to deepen our relationships, first and foremost with God (whom we do not see) while asking ourselves, ‘Do I have a good reason to hope and wait patiently for things to materialise?’ (see Heb 11:1)
- The animator highlights that what is at stake is the purification of our loves (we are in the month of St Valentine’s: love, like faith, is not a fuzzy feeling but built on trust … and waiting!) and quotes Love is Patient by St Paul (1 Cor 13:4) – we are in the month celebrating St Paul, our Father of Faith.
Prayer (2 min)
- The animator hands a root template and asks students to think about and write down next to each root those situations in their lives that call for patience. Like roots, these are often hidden from the sight of many around us (ex. difficult/toxic/complicated/immature relationships, particular inabilities, lack of happiness etc.)
- The animator quotes St Paul again: Let your roots grow down into Christ (Col 2:7)and leads students to present their situations/requests to God while praying the following prayer or similar:
Dear God, thank you for the gift of faith that expresses itself in patience and hope. As we present to you these situations, please help us when we feel impatient and teach us how to grow in faith and love. Strengthen us in hope so that we may be able to see the fruit of our efforts. Amen